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We bless
same gender couples!

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Authorized Rites for
Blessing
Same Gender Couples:
(PDF files)

[Adapted From The
Book of Common Prayer]

[Adapted From The
 New Zealand Rite]

[Adapted From The
 New Westminster Rite]

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We Bless couples of the same or different gender.

 

In the wake of the California Supreme Court decision opening marriage to all residents of our state, our Bishop moved to treat all couples in an equal manner. Bishop Marc Andrus:

  • Asked clergy to encourage all couples, regardless of orientation, to follow the pattern of first being married in a secular service and then being blessed in the Episcopal Church. I will publicly urge all couples to follow this pattern.
     
  • For now, the three rites approved for trial use under the pastoral direction of the bishop, adopted by resolution at the 2007 Diocesan Convention (see appendix below), should be commended to all couples (again, regardless of orientation) to bless secular marriages.
     
  • All marriages should be performed by someone in one of the secular categories set forth in those states which allow same gender couples to marry. The proper sphere for Episcopal clergy is the blessing portion of the marriage.

Resources:

 In this section:

 

  • The understanding of The Episcopal Church currently is that blessings are an extension of the pastoral office of the bishop. For this reason Bishop Marc asks clergy to continue to inform him of all same-sex blessings.
     
  • Same gender couples who have been married under the auspices of state must have the same pre-marriage counseling as that required of any couple seeking marriage or blessing of marriage in The Episcopal Church. This should be understood as an offering of the Church’s support for marriage.
     
  • All people receiving blessings of civil marriages in the Diocese of California are free to use the same degree of publicity (e.g., newspaper notices).
     
  • Those Same gender couples in California who do not wish to travel out of state to enter into a civil marriage may have their relationship blessed following the procedure described above.

 

Links Rites Bibliography For Clergy & Couples For Congregations Marriage & Blessings New Page 2 2005 Task Force Links

 

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Revised: 05/05/09 

 

 

What happened at Lambeth?

If you want to know what happened in Canterbury during the Lambeth Conference, you can:

 

Petition to Win Marriage Back

EQCA is already crunching numbers and doing extensive research to determine what election and what ballot language would give us the best chance to win marriage back.

We need to have a grassroots army ready to hit the streets if we are unsuccessful in court. 

 

Thank you to all who have already signed up to carry petitions to qualify a new initiative to win marriage back. If you haven’t already, sign the petition now at www.eqca.org/petition. And please forward this call to action on to everyone you know.

 

 

The Bishop's London March sought
justice for the poor -
but not LGBT people.
 

Bishop Marc and fellow bishops join in escorting Bishop Gene Robinson to the Changing Attunes/Integrity Eucharist.

The Oasis Witnesses @ Lambeth
came from across America and
around the world.

Presiding Bishop Kathryn Jeffords Shori
and Oasis President Tom Jackson
at Lambeth.

In  2008: We Had A Great PRIDE! 

Bishop Marc Andrus celebrated our annual Pride Mass outside on the parade route and then came along with us - and our Pride Kazoo Band - as we made the historic march down Market Street. More photos here.

Thanks to all who helped:

The Rt. Rev Marc Andrus, Bishop of California, Presider & Preacher

The Rev. Vicki Gray, Deacon

Mr. Thomas C. Jackson, Subdeacon

Ms. Rebeca Rivera, Intercessor

The Rev. Nancy Pennekamp, Presentor of Lambeth Pilgrims

Also: The Rev. Tommy Dillon, St Aidan’s, San Francisco; the Rev. John Kirkley, St. John the Evangelist, San Francisco; the Reverend Rosa Lee Harden & Lois Williams, Holy Innocents; the Rev. Lyle Beckman, San Francisco Night Ministry; and St. Paul’s Oakland, home and organizers of the Pride Kazoo Band.
 

Special thanks to our 2008 Contingent Monitors!

Thanks to them we would are able to march. Our 2008 monitors include: Andrew Aldrich; the Rev. Davidson Bidwell-Waite; Robert Craig; Amy Fielder; Charles Frisbie; Trish Grima; the Rev. Teddy Knight; the Rev. Chris McManus; the Rev. Nancy Pennekamp; Josie Ramos; the Rev. Trish Ross; and Fernando Sampaio.

 

 
 
 

Home Finding a Church About Us Blessing & Marriage Contact Us Volunteer

OASIS CALIFORNIA

The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgender Ministry of the Episcopal Diocese of California

Mailing Address: Oasis California, Oasis California, Post Office Box 7802, Menlo Park, CA, 94026-7802

Copyright © 1999-2008 Oasis California All rights reserved.
Revised: 05/05/09 

 

 

What happened at Lambeth?

If you want to know what happened in Canterbury during the Lambeth Conference, you can:

 

Petition to Win Marriage Back

EQCA is already crunching numbers and doing extensive research to determine what election and what ballot language would give us the best chance to win marriage back.

We need to have a grassroots army ready to hit the streets if we are unsuccessful in court. 

 

Thank you to all who have already signed up to carry petitions to qualify a new initiative to win marriage back. If you haven’t already, sign the petition now at www.eqca.org/petition. And please forward this call to action on to everyone you know.

 

 

The Bishop's London March sought
justice for the poor -
but not LGBT people.
 

Bishop Marc and fellow bishops join in escorting Bishop Gene Robinson to the Changing Attunes/Integrity Eucharist.

The Oasis Witnesses @ Lambeth
came from across America and
around the world.

Presiding Bishop Kathryn Jeffords Shori
and Oasis President Tom Jackson
at Lambeth.

In  2008: We Had A Great PRIDE! 

Bishop Marc Andrus celebrated our annual Pride Mass outside on the parade route and then came along with us - and our Pride Kazoo Band - as we made the historic march down Market Street. More photos here.

Thanks to all who helped:

The Rt. Rev Marc Andrus, Bishop of California, Presider & Preacher

The Rev. Vicki Gray, Deacon

Mr. Thomas C. Jackson, Subdeacon

Ms. Rebeca Rivera, Intercessor

The Rev. Nancy Pennekamp, Presentor of Lambeth Pilgrims

Also: The Rev. Tommy Dillon, St Aidan’s, San Francisco; the Rev. John Kirkley, St. John the Evangelist, San Francisco; the Reverend Rosa Lee Harden & Lois Williams, Holy Innocents; the Rev. Lyle Beckman, San Francisco Night Ministry; and St. Paul’s Oakland, home and organizers of the Pride Kazoo Band.
 

Special thanks to our 2008 Contingent Monitors!

Thanks to them we would are able to march. Our 2008 monitors include: Andrew Aldrich; the Rev. Davidson Bidwell-Waite; Robert Craig; Amy Fielder; Charles Frisbie; Trish Grima; the Rev. Teddy Knight; the Rev. Chris McManus; the Rev. Nancy Pennekamp; Josie Ramos; the Rev. Trish Ross; and Fernando Sampaio.

 

 
 
 

Home Finding a Church About Us Blessing & Marriage Contact Us Volunteer

OASIS CALIFORNIA

The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgender Ministry of the Episcopal Diocese of California

Mailing Address: Oasis California, Oasis California, Post Office Box 7802, Menlo Park, CA, 94026-7802

Copyright © 1999-2008 Oasis California All rights reserved.
Revised: 05/05/09 

 

 

What happened at Lambeth?

If you want to know what happened in Canterbury during the Lambeth Conference, you can:

 

Petition to Win Marriage Back

EQCA is already crunching numbers and doing extensive research to determine what election and what ballot language would give us the best chance to win marriage back.

We need to have a grassroots army ready to hit the streets if we are unsuccessful in court. 

 

Thank you to all who have already signed up to carry petitions to qualify a new initiative to win marriage back. If you haven’t already, sign the petition now at www.eqca.org/petition. And please forward this call to action on to everyone you know.

 

 

The Bishop's London March sought
justice for the poor -
but not LGBT people.
 

Bishop Marc and fellow bishops join in escorting Bishop Gene Robinson to the Changing Attunes/Integrity Eucharist.

The Oasis Witnesses @ Lambeth
came from across America and
around the world.

Presiding Bishop Kathryn Jeffords Shori
and Oasis President Tom Jackson
at Lambeth.

In  2008: We Had A Great PRIDE! 

Bishop Marc Andrus celebrated our annual Pride Mass outside on the parade route and then came along with us - and our Pride Kazoo Band - as we made the historic march down Market Street. More photos here.

Thanks to all who helped:

The Rt. Rev Marc Andrus, Bishop of California, Presider & Preacher

The Rev. Vicki Gray, Deacon

Mr. Thomas C. Jackson, Subdeacon

Ms. Rebeca Rivera, Intercessor

The Rev. Nancy Pennekamp, Presentor of Lambeth Pilgrims

Also: The Rev. Tommy Dillon, St Aidan’s, San Francisco; the Rev. John Kirkley, St. John the Evangelist, San Francisco; the Reverend Rosa Lee Harden & Lois Williams, Holy Innocents; the Rev. Lyle Beckman, San Francisco Night Ministry; and St. Paul’s Oakland, home and organizers of the Pride Kazoo Band.
 

Special thanks to our 2008 Contingent Monitors!

Thanks to them we would are able to march. Our 2008 monitors include: Andrew Aldrich; the Rev. Davidson Bidwell-Waite; Robert Craig; Amy Fielder; Charles Frisbie; Trish Grima; the Rev. Teddy Knight; the Rev. Chris McManus; the Rev. Nancy Pennekamp; Josie Ramos; the Rev. Trish Ross; and Fernando Sampaio.

 

 
 
 

Home Finding a Church About Us Blessing & Marriage Contact Us Volunteer

OASIS CALIFORNIA

The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgender Ministry of the Episcopal Diocese of California

Mailing Address: Oasis California, Oasis California, Post Office Box 7802, Menlo Park, CA, 94026-7802

Copyright © 1999-2008 Oasis California All rights reserved.
Revised: 05/05/09 

 

 

What happened at Lambeth?

If you want to know what happened in Canterbury during the Lambeth Conference, you can:

 

Petition to Win Marriage Back

EQCA is already crunching numbers and doing extensive research to determine what election and what ballot language would give us the best chance to win marriage back.

We need to have a grassroots army ready to hit the streets if we are unsuccessful in court. 

 

Thank you to all who have already signed up to carry petitions to qualify a new initiative to win marriage back. If you haven’t already, sign the petition now at www.eqca.org/petition. And please forward this call to action on to everyone you know.

 

 

The Bishop's London March sought
justice for the poor -
but not LGBT people.
 

Bishop Marc and fellow bishops join in escorting Bishop Gene Robinson to the Changing Attunes/Integrity Eucharist.

The Oasis Witnesses @ Lambeth
came from across America and
around the world.

Presiding Bishop Kathryn Jeffords Shori
and Oasis President Tom Jackson
at Lambeth.

In  2008: We Had A Great PRIDE! 

Bishop Marc Andrus celebrated our annual Pride Mass outside on the parade route and then came along with us - and our Pride Kazoo Band - as we made the historic march down Market Street. More photos here.

Thanks to all who helped:

The Rt. Rev Marc Andrus, Bishop of California, Presider & Preacher

The Rev. Vicki Gray, Deacon

Mr. Thomas C. Jackson, Subdeacon

Ms. Rebeca Rivera, Intercessor

The Rev. Nancy Pennekamp, Presentor of Lambeth Pilgrims

Also: The Rev. Tommy Dillon, St Aidan’s, San Francisco; the Rev. John Kirkley, St. John the Evangelist, San Francisco; the Reverend Rosa Lee Harden & Lois Williams, Holy Innocents; the Rev. Lyle Beckman, San Francisco Night Ministry; and St. Paul’s Oakland, home and organizers of the Pride Kazoo Band.
 

Special thanks to our 2008 Contingent Monitors!

Thanks to them we would are able to march. Our 2008 monitors include: Andrew Aldrich; the Rev. Davidson Bidwell-Waite; Robert Craig; Amy Fielder; Charles Frisbie; Trish Grima; the Rev. Teddy Knight; the Rev. Chris McManus; the Rev. Nancy Pennekamp; Josie Ramos; the Rev. Trish Ross; and Fernando Sampaio.

 

 
 
 

Home Finding a Church About Us Blessing & Marriage Contact Us Volunteer

OASIS CALIFORNIA

The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgender Ministry of the Episcopal Diocese of California

Mailing Address: Oasis California, Oasis California, Post Office Box 7802, Menlo Park, CA, 94026-7802

Copyright © 1999-2008 Oasis California All rights reserved.
Revised: 05/05/09