Service 3: Order for Holy Union

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An Order for Holy Union adapted from The Book of Common Prayer 1979

Blessing of a Holy Union, this Order may be used.

Normally, the celebrant is a priest or bishop. Where permitted by civil law, and when no priest or bishop is available, a deacon may function as celebrant, but does not pronounce the nuptial blessing.

The laws of the State and the policy of the bishop having been complied with, the couple, together with their witnesses, families, and friends assemble in the church or in some other convenient place.

 1. The teaching of the Church concerning same gender unions, as is currently declared in the formularies and canons of this Church, for example, General Convention Resolutions D039 (2000) and C051 (2003), and the policy of the Bishop of California.

 2. The intention of the couple to enter into holy union, and their free consent, is publicly ascertained.

 3. One or more Readings, one of which is always from Holy Scripture, may precede the exchange of vows. If there is to be a Communion, a Reading from the Gospel is always included.

 4. The vows of couple are exchanged, using the following form:

 In the Name of God, I, N., take you, N., to be my spouse (or partner, or some equivalent term), to have and to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, until we are parted by death. This is my solemn vow.

 5. The Celebrant declares the union of the couple, in the Name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.

 6. Prayers are offered for the couple, for their life together, for the Christian community, and for the world.

 7. A priest or bishop pronounces a solemn blessing upon the couple.

 8. If there is no Communion, the service concludes with the Peace, the partners first greeting each other. The Peace may be exchanged throughout the assembly.

 9. If there is to be a Communion, the service continues with the Peace and the Offertory. The Holy Eucharist may be celebrated according to the custom of the congregation in which the service takes place.
 

In the Marriage and Blessing section of the Oasis Web Site you will find:

• Service 1: Celebration and Blessing of a Holy Union • Service 2: Blessing of a Civil Union • Service  3: Order for Holy Union • Service  4: New Zealand Prayer Book • Service  5: New Westminster Rite • Background & History •

 

 

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